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December 31, 2011

Mastering Silence and Revenge


Ok silence is not so easy, one of my favorite sayings is Silence is golden, Duck tape is silver….  I Love that, Simply put, Learn when to back off and be quiet. 

Not every one has an off switch, nor do they have common sense as to when they look like a complete tool.  So here are some sayings I love that sometimes help me through stressful situations.

Revenge is best served cold…..

WOW, what a revelation, Stop acting like a psychiatric hospital patient gone AWOL and let it go.  Revenge is for those who are weak and need to make themselves feel better, strong people are the ones smiling and ducking with every attempt.  Which one do you want to be?

Before you judge someone, Walk in their shoes……

An oldie, but none the less good.  Before you judge someone on their opinions, see their side, don’t pretend like you KNOW them,  Shockingly your probably wrong.

Its not me, its you

Chances are if your gunning for revenge, it is going to be you that is making it harsh, everyone else is really trying to ignore the fact that you have gone a bit bat shit.  Friends may disappear, and god only knows the person your mad at is thankful your gone, and adding up the reasons with every attempt made.

Don’t go away mad, Just go away

Priceless… Do I really have to explain?

My knight in shining armour turned out to be a loser in aluminium foil

A personal Favorite of mine, accept they are not who you thought they were, and since they are not,  Move On

I'm so miserable without you, it's almost as if you're here!

Gawd if I had a dime for every time this one was true….  Laughs,  Time heals all My friends

Cancel my subscription because I don't need your issues

Love this, people think after its over, there is still some things to be said.  Sometimes silence says more than words, Like Fuck Off

Hating you would require an emotional commitment

Once again, Only used by the strong, tried and true, walk away and don’t allow them to bother you, you are letting them hurt you…  I give no one that right, since it is my choice to feel that way

Peace Out

Does My Sh*t Stink?



Are any of us better than the next? I really don’t think so, But what I do know is it is how we handle our selves and a situation that will most ultimately  be perceived as ourselves.  If you play dirty, I’m going to say your shit may not stink more but… Maybe you just have more of it.  My blog is here for entertainment purposes only, and it is for my pleasure of writing.  I Love to write, I ask No one to read it, they do on their own accord.  It is this thing called free speech.  there is a red X at the top right if you have an issue. 

There is also a Disclaimer saying if your easily offended, to press the for mentioned X.  I Received a comment which is not really legible. Commenting on how miscellaneous parts of my body smell, Yet another portion said a male was giving a blowjob to my brothers.  It was quite eloquent. 

Being in secondlife, I have seen better emotes and descriptions from Noobs who wear boxes really.  BUT  they felt the need to write it, so I am going to explain why my pile of shit is not as large and well as stinky. 

I do not cause crap, why, because shit rolls downhill.  Chances are you will be the one standing in it when it does.   It may seem to be different from another point of view, but anyone that knows me KNOWS I do not argue, I walk and disappear. 

When may my shit smell a bit?  Try sending say your BFF to my virtual lot yelling at me and another person, while we were not even there mind you…. and trying to make it look like he is the biggest douche ever.  That is when My blood boils.  If I am not involved in something, I  do everything in my power to stay that way.  At this point, I am going to be a bitch. 

I do have better things to do than deal with immature actions from a person that feels the need to hurt me for no other than the reason than you THINK I did something to cause you hurt.  I would like to mention I was AFK your whole relationship.  I came back the day before the ax came down so to speak.  I was not the cause, I was the shoulder after, as I have been for many years.  The definition of  being a shoulder to lean on has NOTHING to do with Cyber, Cheating or whatever else you THINK I may have done.  

Even IF I could, you would not believe me regardless so I have to go into Bitch mode, If you think toying with me is amusing, so be it.  I can pretty much write about anything, and Honestly, I can walk away from SL Very easily. It is call Real life, and I had that All Summer and am Completely fine Boxing on my Xbox Kinect. 

Funny thing is I did stop logging, for months and you know what,  The person whom you actually hated, Not me, was still my friend.  SO regardless of what I do, If I come or go, If I am a bitch or not.  Well we are just that good of friends to be able to not listen to the bullshit. 

So In Closing, every ones shit stinks, but some piles  are just bigger than others.

December 30, 2011

4 Hours 43 Minutes and 36 Sec


amle and trolo

We wake everyday, We do our routine, and we smile whenever possible, Well at least I do.  I am an introvert by nature, but an optimistic one at that… I am a bit confusing.  It may not happen often but I have been known to crawl out of my shell to say DJ etc.  Mind you this was a while ago…..  Ill fix my PC one day and do again. 

Chatting to a friend about what my next blog should be (I have been Pretty Pissy lately and needed to lighten it up a bit HA HA) ,  they suggested I do one on how it is not how many people that are around, But WHO is there with you.  That one person who can hold your attention, one that can last say 4 hours 43 Minutes and 36 seconds.  even when it is old it never matter.  That person is someone whom you could have doubled that time and never got boring. 

We all have friends in a virtual world, and we do seem to hang with the same people over and over again, sometimes because of mutual interests, sense of humor or maybe even just because we WANT to be with them for no other apparent reason than they are our dual.  The other half that completes us, the significant other who makes us feel good, the one that listens, makes us smile when we cannot on our own, the one that understands the others needs, wants, desires and can read them like an open book.

Sad to say, most of us over look sometimes what they have, had or forget what that feels like.  The duality of them subsides and on comes our search for something we already had.  Other times it is like an old glove, you know where it is and know that when you need it, it still fits perfectly and without hesitation you will always reach for it.  They are your favorite so why bother with the others that you know are to bulky, to tight or just plain irritating. 

So in closing,  once you have something good, never set it aside, for it may be that one you were always looking for.

Peace Out Peeps!

December 29, 2011

Growing up in Secondlife


Holy Hell, Some people are Sooo Freaking Lucky I have a No Names Policy on this blog and I adhere to My word.  They are sending, Lets call her Shitty baby to my lot to act all stupid (Funny thing is, I was not even there reading it as they Yelled out their rant and nether was my friend)  trying to cause issues… I am a Peaceful person, I just Politely asked them In IM to not return to my lot.  They went off mind you, trying to stir up more trouble,  I kindly said I believed nothing and muted them….

I have been In SL WAY to long people,  Really I know these games, the mind ones you THINK you can play…  I am better than that. 

My Options were

A. Believe someone I met my first week in Secondlife and am pretty close to

B.  Believe some Ranting Psycho on my lot with access to my profile Info that pretty much leads you to my house, Not to Mention they happen to be in the “Family” group of my friends X girlfriend.

Ok, I'm NOT a rocket scientist but I do have common sense, I feel for this X who feels the need to harass them in such a way that makes her look immature and well just a plain freakin nut.  I also  hope this time she will grow a backbone and be a stronger person after she realizes how she is acting is just insane.  Please take your meds if prescribed by a Medical professional..  For the love of god and everyone PLEASE!

I am Not going to play into the Drama, But I am going to toy with your thoughts, Until you grow strong enough to STOP looking up my profile… Is it true?  Maybe.. Is it Not true?  Maybe .. Somewhere In between.. I am the only one who really knows so you just keep reading my Pics. 

For now, I am questioning why I even logged Bk in after a 4 Month vacation from SL… I left to leave the Drama, and come back to some under medicated, Mentlly unstable girl who apparently wants to kick my ass, for what….. Ha ha, Only she knows that.  I breath… Yeah that’s probably it. 

So in closing, Grow Up!  Don’t attempt to be mature and 30 years old when you act younger than a pubescent  teen…  It is not becoming, Nor is it tolerated with me.  I am not an emotional person, nor will I believe 90% of the crap I receive.  You should make this a lesson and turn 18 this year.

December 28, 2011

How Not To Screw Up a Break Up


I know they suck, I mean seriously.. Do any of us want the emotional BS of a break up?  NO,  We don’t go in with the attitude of  “They will Be my X one day so ride it out”

Hell No! We go in, fall fast then question later.  It is Human nature to put our eggs in one basket, I mean seriously, If your lazy why carry two for other options?

First rule of Breaking Up

STFU after a few failed attempts to talk……  I say this because people tend to keep talking when the other party is No longer interested,  they may smile or nod, maybe even reply, But chances are they really could care less about your excuses, your motivations and your emotions at this point. They are Humoring you, at Best and at worst, well Your just proving their point on why they broke up to begin with.

Don’t Threaten – Really, if you need to use threats to get someone back, even if it works, do you think they WANT to be there, Umm no,  they already ran once and will probably run again at the first chance they get. 

Don’t Call Names – GAWD.. If I had a dollar for every time I had a friend post some shit about an X.. Really this is mature… In maybe kindergarten.. My 6 year old son knows better than most adults, and I use the term adults very loosely at this point.  You look like the twit after you press save, send, enter or accept not your X…..

Don’t try to pull friends onto your side…. If they are on your side, they will still be there, Pulling them makes them question your friendship with them,  Chances are if they were your Xs friend first, You have lost them on default, If they were your friend first and they were also their friend but you keep acting a fool they will flee for enemy territory for less drama.

Don’t linger – The saddest thing is when someone cannot let it go…  Take a step back, No, Forget a step, Hell Move out of the state or at least DON”T contact them at numerous hours begging and pleading.  One – It Looks Desperate and two – Do you really want them at this point.. Lets think here.  They don’t want you, they broke up with you, So this now goes into you cannot always have what you want, Life is not fair and well… Put your big boy/girl pants on and walk away…..

Don’t try to be friends out of the blue with their friends – Ok this rarely happens, BUT it has been done.. OMG  Who are you and Why would I want to friend a person I don’t know on facebook or any other social outlet… Grow up and move on.

I see it this way, For me 6 months is good with no talking,  I like 6 months a nice round number, half a year and well, most harsh feelings are gone.  I am not a doctor, but I did stay in a Holiday Inn Express a few times….. So I know what I'm talking about, and the fact that very few of my Xs think I'm a total Nut case AND still talk to me, Regardless of who did the breaking up.   The few that do think I’m a nutcase,  maybe I wanted them to think that so there was NO contact in 6 months.. I am a smart cookie like that…..


Peace Out!





December 24, 2011

Happy Holidays



Tis the season for prim candy canes, dressing up as a virtual santa and giving the gift of cheer.   I haz been online a bit more, not all as once, in small pockets really.  It has been a flurry of shopping for gifts and giving them away.  My one friend bestowed upon me a beautiful dress accompanied by some black pearls and Gift certificate from EDO.  They were lovely.  Yet another friend sent me a Gift from DE Designs and a necklace that in a way coincided with theirs.  I may not be on all the time, But I DO have wonderful friends. 

Looking back on Christmas’s past,  I have been lucky, I never really spent a Christmas alone.  My first 2 years were spent with my partner  over a prim feast, chatting, laughing and sharing our days,  the last Christmas, I had a beautiful art gallery house, with all the festivities of Christmas.  Sent my partner a real gift instead of a inworld gift, which made me smile.  I luff giving gifts. 

This year will be a mile marker also, as I am spending it with those who over the years have made my past Christmas's what they were and making new memories.   Funny thing, I did not ask for anything this year, I did not ask for love, lindens or friends.  But as the season came, in walked all these gifts that over the years I already had, one that I had not forgotten but I had not thought about in a long time.   I was amazed at the thought, the meaning and the sweetness behind each gift.  Some just plain generous others, well more personal and given with the heart and not a linden balance.  One gift came along with a beautiful poem, it melted my heart, which is normally pretty damn untouchable.  

I wish all my friends in world a peace this season, a peace of mind and the warm thoughts of love from afar, virtual hugs and a vision for a happier future.  I have already gotten my Christmas gift, come to find out, I had already had it for 4 years now and just never knew it.

Peace and love be with you

December 14, 2011

Stepping back In, Just a Lil


So after being retired for a few years I have brought back Dylana a bit,  Not much but enough to say I am inworld.  My reasons for bringing her back?  As Lindsay, She has been a permanent name on the friends list of many.  I am not the type to ever delete a person, so if I log in I am bombarded with random IMs.  Dylana is from back in the day a textured shirt with prim arm cuffs was Premium, and low prim did not Include sculpties yet.  It is back when clubs did not always have a 200 L contest going to Lure in people, The owner wanted to have a club and did it for the want, not the need to bring in people to their mall.  Back when  your hair ended up your ass more often than a Good teleport and your legs seems to fold like a chair after company left for the holidays.  She is Definitely old school.  So when I log in, I have maybe 4 friends who speak to me, the other 100 are ether off Secondlife now, busy living their secondlife, or is wondering who the hell I am and waiting for me to log and delete me. 

Having my few closest friends on he account is what makes me go back, It makes me smile knowing they are there and always a fixture on my list. 

I logged for 40 Minutes one night and went to a Jimmy Buffett concert with my sim owner, a kind, sweet woman who has a SL/RL love whom is her life.  She took over my sim almost 2 years ago, I was scared at first but she has been such a good friend, even when I am logging once a month and a few days late to pay tier…. Thank You Midi!

So one of my best friend in Second Life Enn showed me a program to do Photos, I love pictures, but suck at taking them, But I finally redid My Profile Picture

As I was taking these yet another old friend contacted me, I have them In my profile, so I said, Hey, come by and we will take an updated shot, Shockingly they did…. These are the pics I got from that shoot

Let me say I REALLY appreciate them NOT wearing their hot Pink pants… Ha ha

So here is Meh, the new No old, Well  semi-retired avatar that was once a fixture in secondlife for way to many hours to fathom.  Its good to be back on even if just a little, I missed you guys!

December 8, 2011

Changing your name in Secondlife


Now I am not one to point out blame, Ever,  I could yes, But,  I do have better things to do than A. Apparently Log into Secondlife and B Piss random people off because they assume I am speaking about them, and C Try to Remember that their name is now  **^^**()(Sn00K3 K1tT7)()**^^**.

I think some if the social interaction in SL is gone because we were given the “Powers” to make our name,  Yes,  We wanted this,  I mean if you logged in and spent 40K on an avatar, but named yourself say, Rubberballer or SlutForHire after a while the name may get old.

I see it as a masquerade party with name tag on really,  You can see them on your list, But Wait, Keep reading cause they are not who that appear to be.  I think Ill change mine to like Eddie.  I have lost friends in my 220 friends because they changed their name to something that resembled another that I had not talked to and so then the communication communication.  We are still friends but never chat anymore.  At one time someone told me to change my Name to something that was A-J cause that’s all they could see…..They were to lazy to scroll down apparently to look for me.  Umm Yeah, Ill do that.  I am now looking into names from P-Z  any suggestions? 

So this blog whats it about?  Eh, Im not really sure honestly  Just random thoughts and a monster energy that is keeping me going.  

November 22, 2011

From EA With Hugs–Meeting your online equivalent


It started so long ago, I cannot even  remember how it began, Besides a Smart assed comment on my page.  Childish bantering and a few Flirtations.  It was Social Media at its best.  It ended up being someone, I am blessed to know, One who I can talk to and one whom always has a piece of my heart.   As October approached I knew the day would come,  the day we would meet in person.  He is silly, able to take my shit,  caring and most certainly someone I was destined to meet.  Our shared Birthday, Our personality traits that mirror each others, and our sense of humor fit like the last puzzle piece in a 1000 piece jumbled mess we call our Life. 

I had already met one person online before, Granted it was a bit different,  He was younger, scared of me, Well Ok, NOT scared but he definitely nervous. It was a 20 Minute meeting and very nerve racking I think on both our parts, but I'm sure given a few hours we would have relaxed a bit more.  I Ill talk, laugh and have a good time, I may not be the Sultry avatar I portrayed in secondlife, But I can hold my own. 

Dragging my ass out of bed at 4:30 AM was not easy… No, not so much, and my hair apparently was going to follow suit as the curlers dropped so did my hair, it was a failed attempt at such an early hour, but the thought was there.  After Dropping lil one off at school and realizing he had forgot his Backpack, It was pretty apparent I was going to have a Long day.  My plan was to be there at Noon then back on the road By 4 or 5.  Being blind has its disadvantages when driving at Night,  Especially when street signs are needed.  after an hour on the road, I stopped by a gas station and grabbed 2 more monsters,  I live on those, they are my energy… after munching on a few bites of a Sausage McMuffin, I was back on the road.  I cannot remember where I was when I stopped Next,  It was a Rest stop, probably 3 hours into the Grueling monotony  that Ohio calls roads,  It was actually rather Quaint,  the 2 lane highway, the small spotted towns that were gone just as I saw them coming,  the Random big box store sign, a Church I swear was bigger than the town I lived In set back so far that they had fountains that were 3 or 4 stories tall sprouting up out of the ground and Being a draw for anyone driving by. 

He was to wake up by 1 AM, He had a 5:40 flight to be there in time for our lunch date, he was up at Midnight fearing he would be late, Which he was but only by a few minutes.  He apparently was getting nervous,  He had texted me a few times, and I for the most part was sleeping in a beautiful ambien haze.  He got to his plane fine, and the layover was no issue except they had to delay the flight he was going to for them to board.  Just a few hours away from the great Northern Buckeyes state (Sneers).   I think the first thing he did when he was able to use his phone again was text me,  I was on the road, Just over 3 hours now, My contacts were a bit pissed from staring at the concrete, But I had Enrique englasis to keep me happy and awake, Not to forget the 3 monsters I had consumed, I think I was only on 2 at that point though.

The real fun did not begin until I got to Columbus, there was so many one way streets, So many people pilfering through the streets and oh yeah, It’s the home to the buckeyes… as I drive through town with a U of M Bag full of misc stuff I had picked up to show some Michigan love to the Texan that waited for me at the radisson in the lobby.  After a few failed attempts to gain entry into the parking garage I finally mastered the turn into the correct drive and found a spot, I was pretty happy with myself at this point.  I walked out of the parking garage and grabbed my phone,  walking up the path that said *Not a Foot Path*  I made my way up used to breaking the rules.

He on the other hand had his own issues besides parking, His phone was dying and he had no room to stay in yet, So he was hanging in the lobby charging his phone with way to many last minute details on his mind *Laughs*  When I phoned him, He did sound nervous but happy, Just happy I was a few hundred feet away.  When you meet for the first time, your scared no matter what,  Will they like me, Do I look as good as my pictures?  Am I to fat? Short?  Boring? Gawd at this point Semi Likable would have been a bonus. 

“Are you ready?” I joked

“As ready as I’ll ever be” He joked back

“You Nervous?”

“Yeah, but that soon will pass” I laughed and we hung up. 

The hotel was bustling with people there for the conference, there was 4 there that weekend.  He sat there by a table charging his phone, without a room yet he was a bit homeless but hopeful. After exchanging hugs and some small chit chat for a few It was close to 1 by that time, due to my inability to understand the buckeye way of road segmentation and why the majority of roads were one way all going the same way….  Never said I was a road scholar. 

We headed up to the hotel bar, the first thing he said to me was

“I didn’t think you would be so tall”  Smirks… I am 5’5 1/2 (I'm NOT giving Up my Half Inch LOL)  with additional 3 Inch heels, Which the heels would get old after a while, Believe me. 

He on the other hand was surprised that I was cool, I fit my personality to a T, and he thought I made a good Impression, The things he said I cannot type out because it would make me blush and feel like I was Promoting myself, which is not in my character.  The bottom line was, I am who I say I am, and I do not differ much in person.

First round of drinks were nice,  we were going to eat but time somehow passed way to quick,  and even in person he took my shit about his brand new laptop that still was so simpleton it would not run a low graphic version of secondlife.  In reality it did what he wanted to do,  which was not gaming but his business, I cannot imagine having a computer and being limited but then, I am a old gamer even though my monitor has not seen any thing graphics intensive in months. 

I bought the second round of drinks, Its my nature to always be 50/50,  He was kind of surprised, and I told him, Your buying food, Let me buy you a pop/Soda whatever you call it in your state.  In Michigan it is a pop.. But most places use this soda term which reminds me of the olden days and soda fountains. 

Being me, and used to just taking over, whatever the situation, I was able to get him a room at the hotel for a night, but not the 2 needed, but put him on a waiting list for cancelations, in the mass confusion of being homeless etc, I was happy he had a place to sleep for the night, the room was a corner suite, windows all around, Big screen TV and the comforter was heavenly looking.  He was surprised I just started calling the hotel, got his the room and took charge.. Umm Yeah that just me, If its gonna get done it can’t be done without trying.

Amazing how things change so fast,  I had just grabbed the menu and plopped down on the bed giving my feet a rest when he got a call, another room for 2 nights was available so off to the lobby we went, I met some of his friends that were there,  He had told them he was hanging “Solo” to meet some girl (Smirks) and they all seemed very nice, But then everything was done quickly, I did not talk a lot to them, just exchanged a few hand shakes etc.  He grabbed the key and got a refund for the first room… Ill miss that Huge white cloud looking comforter with Over sized pillows…  Sighs.   The next room was across the street, it was a room with 2 beds.  As long as I could fall down on one of them I was completely fine. It was a  a short walk if you know where your going, Longer if you don’t… *Laughs*  His luggage in tow we headed over to the next place, this is around where the 3 inch heels were no longer attractive to my feet, Yeah… I helped him get his stuff settled in,  Grabbed his dying android and tossed it on the charger,  I had kept mine off a lot knowing the battery life is less than a Kim Kardashian  marriage.  Then fell out on the bed letting my feet get  a break.

Undecided where to eat now, we settled on room service,  Max and Ermas delivers… Yay!   We feasted over Greasy food  and Ice tea for me (I was not looking forward to the Long drive home) for another hour,  chatting away till I saw the time, it was officially late, after 7.  It was already getting dark…. I was shocked, how the hell am I going to find my way home.  Well not home but to the highway. 

All in all it was a fantastic time,  the conversation never stopped,  we lounged in the room, being silly and sweet.  Hugs and Kisses were exchanged and we held onto the moment knowing it was to be over almost as soon as it started.   I think he found I may be chatty but I'm still shy at times, and he, well he was the perfect gentleman, even offered to buy me a Monster or two for the road. 

He walked me to the lobby and I started for the doors,  after about 20 steps I turned,  I watched him go to the elevators, He did not look back. I smiled.  He on the other hand did not think I would look back, after a hug and a kiss, he headed back to the elevator, with a huge smile on his face, Bigger than he though he remarked because the girl at the check in counter watched him and smiled right back at him.  He said if he would have known I was going to stop and watch him leave, He would have come back to get me.  His conference was crazy that night, he sent me pictures, of the auditorium, and we chatted after I finally got home.  He texted me throughout the conference, saying way to many sweet things, ones I doubt I deserve, but was happy to hear that from someone who shares the same birthday, has the same sporadic attention defect disorder and has the patience of  a cabbie in New York.  All in all, as he said the nervousness will soon pass and it did, after over 6 hours it was like I was leaving someone I had known forever, I was sad to go but knew my ride was another 4 and a half hours of darkness and cops who HATE Michigan drivers.

I would do it again and have my chance again in January when he is back. 


mi príncipe azul
hasta la próxima vez

November 19, 2011



So I was in hiding, as I surfed through the sims in secondlife, I have 2 friends on this account, One that I have not talked to In, well a long time and another whom knows where to find me if I am online.  I was Looking for a place, one to blog about, one that would make me want to write.  He had a Place, One of art, serenity and  an ominous sky that opened up to the stars and beyond.  It was Pteron

It had a Blue Crystal doorway on high graphic settings and it was like an Ice castle, Until you selected your destination Then it was a Universe of mystery, It was walking through Light beams, Peeking at  beautiful sculpted flowers,  Walking on the cusp of a Neon ring and peering through a Capsule into a mass of stars and fireworks, It was a beautiful Sim. 

Here are some of the Pictures we took, in between chatting and catching up as I have been AFK a lot.  Yes I will come back one day, It is just timing right now.  When I do log as Lindsay, I am sent hugs and love and well wishes, Pleads to come back and random invitations.  I do feel the love, Until I am able to come back and be who I was meant to be, I will come on under the radar, Just long enough to see one or 2 People, Just long enough to write a blog, Just long enough to get My Pixelized Fix.

November 17, 2011



Pronounced Habana is a city in Cuba. 

In all Honesty I did not know Crap about Cuba, except for people were clamoring to get out of there and come to the states.  Amazing how meeting people can broaden your horizons and pull you into a lesson without trying to. 

Yes, I met someone who lived there as a child, they wanted to go back to visit family, I wanted to go because they made it sound so wonderful and beautiful. 

There used to a lot of Cuban Sims,  Ones where they were built to show you the lifestyle, the surroundings and the homes that the people lived in.  Once a year I will search for a Cuban sim, walk around and pretty much be one with the pixels of prim builds, the sandy beaches and the builds textured with plaster walls and peeling paints.  Old cars and tall buildings  that seem to be etched out of the backdrop.

I am still fascinated with Cuba, and to this day go to Cuban sims.

So a few Months back… Yes I know my Blogging ability is dwindling lately, But once again a Few months ago I  Hijacked a Avatar and jumped Online for a few hours and was one with the surroundings, I am sad to say they had put snow on the sim… Really?  I am doubting Cuba has ever seen snow, But I walked the whole sim regardless.

The beach was peaceful,  with tents and Pillows the city was actually very pretty, with the Old buildings, the painted busses and the palm trees.  I am pretty sure that was one of the last times I was In Secondlife longer than 20 Minutes, which seems to be my max every few weeks lately.  I am lucky to have an appreciation for others backgrounds,  an acceptance of differences and a willingness to learn about them.  Funny, I saw on cable this movie called Xanadu,  I Looked it up and there Popped up Cuba, the Xanadu mansion, at one Point the Dupont Mansion, a Golf Resort now. I started to built a small scale model of it, I did give up, It was quite the feat, But I look at it now and think, Really it is  quite an easy build minus the textures.

Where am I off to next?  Hmm I am not sure, I have been to Paris, To Detroit, to Iowa and to Cuba in Secondlife, yes, not really any Rhyme or reason to those is there?  Oh yes I forgot south beach, Went there just before kicking it for real in Florida.  I will pop on again one day and take a tour, and then, I shall Blog happily.

October 26, 2011

Halloween on a Budget


50 L or Less, Oh yes, this is Possible…  Just wait till You see what I got.  Some funny some Cute, Some just Well, a costume LOL

These are from Costume Creations


This one was FREE, Ok not so sexy But it amused me

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The Female Poodle skirt was just cute and came with the hair, and I bought the Builder Male version, I put the whole box on.. Umm Had a male shape and Skin Included.. Oops!  I can Be a Male Now YAY!

The below were on on SLX 10 L to 0 Linden, the Brides shape not my Favorite But I replaced it with my own shape and Wha Laa – Instant Costume.  All were Complete costumes Some came W skin/Hair Etc, I am picky tho and changed for My Own hairs,  So with under 20 L I bought all these Outfits.. Yaa Me!




The Sanctuary Sim

So I found this Halloween sim, Had a great Maze which I did find my way out of… Must have been the black hair, really, and had lots of cool places with a haunted house, small gazebos with quant little dancing areas and Ghoulish looking ghosts wandering.  A blood waterfall with a big skull for me to get all homey at in my Black witches costume and just to much to mention.  One of the Sim owners was there and mentioned not everytthing was out yet,  Cannot wait to go back again!  All the Pictures are taken inworld, No modifications, So they are not cropped, But I hope you get a chance to visit them soon!

Halloween Sim Location

October 23, 2011

Random Nothingness



Hi… Yeah been a while right.. Funny thing,  I told a Friend who is not in SL anymore I had nothing to blog about, they proceeded to try to “Piss” me off, It did not work,  I know them WAY to well and everything they said ether amused me or made me cringe from the thought but Not give me a Blog post.. They have since quit SL also, amazing how that happens  we are still tight, well I think so, We chat offline in IM on other networks and stuff,  but in SL they won’t log, They have no reason to, have they totally left, Nah, they will be back like me.  Funny thing

Them: Funny how you have nothing to bitch about since you left SL

Me:  I Know Right…..

But its true, I got nothing, No not nothing, about a week ago I got a random IM, Ok not so random, but an IM regardless,  from lets say to keep it on the DL, a Friend.  They were apparently horny and wanted some, and they ended up in my box, Yeah this is gonna go far…  Ha ha I cannot tell you anymore cept for they should have known better, and That was pointed out. 

Then there is the people out there who all of a sudden come back to life, like me, We are lost,  I know tonight I spoke to 3 people,  Even my BFF was afk,  Really its like crap Im on for 3 hours and 1 person I was talking to Inworld is not even INWORLD… Yep, ha ha, WTF.   I am not a socially inept person to begin with,  But as I saw people who I knew I had somewhat bonded with I said a hello, they chatted back, but really, I still felt a bit out of place.   I know I know Ill get back Into the swing of things, I miss it,  and I will get Bk on as I used to, that is a No Brainer. 

Ok I guess I am done for now, I know,,,, Lame as hell, but yeah that is all I got, Well for now  working on another blog though,  May take me a while,  considering the Like of it took me four years,  Yeah, I can be slow sometimes. Keep it virtually real, Peace Out

October 17, 2011

The Holiday that Never Dies….. Halloween


I am not sure about you, but as a child, even Christmas could not compare to Halloween, and still cannot as I relive it through my sons eyes.  This is one of those novelty days where you can be whoever, whatever and whenever you want to be, Well the whenever still applies to secondlife all year around.   Seriously my whole year is filled with my son asking me to add this or that toy to his Christmas list with the occasional I want to be a Policeman, Military soldier, Spiderman, Ninja, and lastly this year …. Batman.   I will wait till next weekend to purchase his costume as it changes so often, and well, I am not a bank as much as he would like me to be. 

SO yes, all the Halloween parties, Hunts, Gifts Etc have come in world,  If I get to log in, I will grab the few that have not been over my Delivery Cap and then open later, But what I do Love, is my actual costumes.

So Here is a few of my Fav, If they are still available I will let you know where to get them Smile 

This is a group gift I found, both the male and female outfits at Lovecats, So Grab it while its still available

Next Up is some BlackLace Costumes, They always make some Fantastic stuff

And this is My OLD Favorite  I remember hanging at a party with Jane and Ceasar BACK in the day,  Back when Cryophile was Neversedge, And well all of secondlife was New.


You do Not have to Buy costumes… Look for Free ones, they are all over,  I surely have 30 in my inventory alone, But these are just My Picks for ones I may be wearing this year.  Mucho Hugs and the one with the Most candy WINS!

October 10, 2011

Xntra City - empower the Eccentric in you!


Well that is the Location Title, But really it is a pretty cool city, Very Umm Eccentric.  My gem there was a factory, that made your avatar into a Robot, I mean you went on this Machine and it shot you ll over, making your avi into this anonymous robot, and also gave you a hud to do tasks for RP, Now that is Pretty cool!  

Location Description in SL

A community of Blank robots created in the Blank Factory to accept quests, battle Mimics in themed combat arenas, and protect nano from rival cyborgs. Tasked with saving the world by spreading eccentricity. Start in the Blank's Robot Factory for av & hud!

Of course I did Not have a master Folder in this avatars name yet so I made it real quick (I was already in line to be a robot)  Yeah Im smart…. But It worked Out Wonderfully!  Check this place out!  Worth the Look around and don’t forget to Get your Robot On Smile 


Being Made Into a Robot


My New Robot Look… Tasks later, But it was fun Exploring!