So I did a blog on relationships, called That Gray Shaded area But I left out a side, The side everyone else Presumes. A relationship Is a 2 way road, But Be it friendship Dating, Serious or not, People will have their opinions. Most are from what they see, Hear and notice, others from what you tell them, Others just out of pure speculation. So now we are at a Square, No longer a triangle.
No matter what you do you cannot stop this from happening, It is human nature to come to a conclusion based on their interactions with them, Regardless of it was good, bad or just plain Hideous.
Chatting to a friend about a couple her comment was
“They were always perfect together”
Funny because they are no longer together, But that does not stop them from having an opinion. Not that I disagree with them or their opinion, I actually do agree, But once again it is a 3rd party viewing at this Point.
So here it is, that gray shaded area has 2 areas, the reality and the assumptions that others place on that relationship. It is usually the 3rd party references that have the rumors, the insinuations and sometimes they may be dead on, but one thing is for sure, It does not matter who you are but your actions or lack there of will be tallied for later assumptions, and judged by others. So get on your game face and make it worth the rumor.
Peace Out
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